Graham, your comment was very moving and important for me. Thank you!
I don’t think I have an established way of deciding about questions like this one. Although, one such way may be… writing about them. :) This allows me to better understand whether I actually see it as a “problem” or not — and if I am lucky, to receive a supportive and mind-opening comment like yours.
Today I feel blessed.
Thank you again. 🙏