Jack, I appreciate your views on sexuality and your preference to keep this area of life just for the spouse you marry. However, not everyone sees it this way (for example that premarital sex does harm to future spouses — which is an opinion, rather than a fact). I think that everyone should have the right to lead their sexual life according to their preferences, of course as long as they don’t harm anybody else by doing that.

All I am saying here is that there is no one good answer for everybody, especially in such intimate matters like one’s sexuality.