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On The Predicament Of Modern Man
Are we really wondering why so many of us grow depressed? To me, it doesn’t seem strange at all. Not today, when I happen to have a deep insight into my own emotional and mental condition. I just paid more attention than usual to these things throughout the day.
The predicament of a modern man or woman really isn’t easy OR simple. On one hand, we are still subject to biological mechanisms which make us feel things. Things like the desire of physical closeness with a mate. Or fear, which for thousands of years used to fuel our drive to ameliorate and always chase the state of comfort. Or sadness that, I believe, was designed to naturally connect us to others when we find ourselves alienated.
On the other hand, the modern woman or man is also subordinate to what society deems appropriate. And it is not appropriate for a girl like me to chase men just because I would like a hug. I was already called “a dog” because of that. I am also told to embrace my fear and do things in spite of it. Whenever I feel sad, my mind program tells me to deal with it myself and not burden others with my “low vibes”.
I mean, is it just me, or do you also see endless potential for depression, frustration and anxiety stemming from this eternal-internal conflicts?
